Rawalpindi
Sanu Ki
No country can ever unshackle the oppression of its ruling elite if its people choose ‘silence’ over voicing their concerns about the visible oppression. This is how the “culture of silence” is systemically transitioned into a “conspiracy of silence.”
A few years back, one evening, while having a quiet sitting with my elderly German colleague, who happened to be our general manager, on the eve of his departure from Pakistan, we randomly got hooked up in a dabbling discussion. The question he asked me was not a perplexing one, yet his remarks on my response continue to echo in my ears to date—something that would remain etched on the surface of my mind. It makes me question our very existence as a nation and the quagmire that we seem to be sinking into — a seemingly bottomless pit into which we see ourselves being sucked deeper and deeper with each passing day.
He asked me as to what, in my opinion, was the cause of the terrible tribulation befalling our country and nation. I gave him a reply that we all are quite accustomed to, and now can prove our point with great prowess; the entire credit for our deprivations and poverty went to the British Masters. It was them who made us miss the bus to social and human development, economic activity, education; they planned to keep us subservient to them like toothless slaves, and to date, we still don’t find the traction under our very feet. I aided my response with some textbook-validated fuel premised upon how the Industrial Revolution in England’s history was actually a result of the de-industrialization in India, telling him how the “Inglorious Empire” devoured us like a voracious Cyclops.
He then said, whatever excuses this country may have to offer, the fact remains that every second country on the globe, including those in the First World, has been through such challenges at one point or the other. However, in their case, they succeeded in getting out of troubled waters by taking steps in the right direction and moving on. According to him, in our case, the real culprit is the de facto continuation of the regime of the colonial oppressors that had merely swapped faces and the failure of our people to raise a voice against the tyranny and oppression that had continued to rage our country as of yet. No country can ever unshackle the oppression of its people if its masses choose ‘silence’ over voicing their concern about the visible oppression that is rampant, and this continues to hit them in the gut. The problem, according to him, lied not with the colonialists, who have long gone, but with the deafening silence of the masses against the neo-colonialists that continue to reign. This is how the “culture of silence” has systemically transitioned into a “conspiracy of silence.”
It has now struck me with increasing clarity; the real cause of our masses to maintain their silence even in the teeth of grave oppression, seeing wrong being done with impunity. There are multiple causes of this phenomenon.
When people are driven away from education, slowly and methodically ripped off their basic rights, deprived of basic facilities such as education, medical, water, electricity, and employment, and are treated as pests devoid of human sensitivities, they actually become so. This hidden dimension of the nature of the human mind has been described in memoirs by many prisoners of war (including individuals from the West and East) languishing in foreign prison camps with appalling living conditions. The absence of hope makes human nature behave in a mysterious manner transcending and pushing aside all logic of reasoning and fears. They start thinking of themselves to be a non-entity, who, irrespective of what they think or feel is immaterial. Initially, they lose their critical thinking abilities and their right to question. Then the captives (read ruling elite) capitalize on this loss; it transforms them into a pack of hungry creatures, indoctrinated to worship them as godots, for a few scraps of food in order to survive. A herd which, no matter how much their captors pilfer and plunder, could not think beyond Bhutto Zinda hai, justifying them to the extent of Khata hai to lagata bhi hai. The next stage is when the ruling elite would make them blind, dumb, and deaf and would render them genetically incapable of thinking beyond personalities. They lose their very sense of questioning, their rational capacity to differentiate, in empirical terms, between right and wrong. It doesn’t matter to them seeing their masters having palatial lifestyles, while they languish perennially in the squalor of abject misery.
I have seen thorough professionals and well-educated individuals displaying the same behaviour. Aloof, cold, and unempathetic would best describe them. Nothing on earth seems to disturb them. These are the individuals who have sent (settled) their children to greener pastures. Having achieved their lifetime aim, they deem themselves to be sitting in the “departure lounge.”
Then we have the class belonging to lower strata, the proverbial ‘have nots’. These are the people who neither have the money nor hope in the system. They have lost all trust in the system. For them, all that exist are perpetual miseries and sorrows. It is immaterial which government comes and goes. What they know is that their condition can not possibly go further down. Resultantly, there is a visible absence of ownership. Deprivation and destitution coupled with hardship and injustices compound the syndrome, snatching from them the sense of ownership.

This Sanu ki behaviour has developed into a communal language of its own for our entire nation. It is not just limited to the poor, but even takes in its sway the higher classes: our pseudo elites, and so-called intelligentsia. This culture has bred a society wherein no one is answerable to no one.
Next comes the ‘Waiting for Allah’ group that would stick to the archetypal phrase Allah ki marzi even if a mountain comes rolling down on them. To them, any amount of tyranny, injustice, or oppression is to be treated as ‘Imtehaan’ from the divine. To them, doomsday is the right moment when God will do justice Himself. Again, it is a phenomenon depicting the real face of our justice system. When trust in state institutions such as the Judiciary, Police, and Bureaucracy fizzles out, people see it convenient finding solace by leaving things into the hands of God. In countries where rule of law prevails, the persecuted pledges to take the other party to the court, whereas here the victim vows to see his abuser on the Day of Judgment. This is the stage when a hapless man or woman finds it more convenient to strangle themselves after slitting their throats or of their children, or jump into a well or canal or self-emulate, along with the entire family, instead of coming out and fight for their right.
Another category is one leaning towards fanatic religiosity. A couple of years ago, I happened to be sitting in a mosque of a well-to-do housing society, listening to the Friday sermon. The topic of the sermons in such mosques is issued by the central religious branch from the concerned directorate. The topic is also written and displayed on the front entrance. Owing to the hot and humid season, the hall was jam-packed with the worshippers. The Maulana, however, in utter disregard to the topic, started giving a lecture on family planning branding the practice tangent to the Islamic tenet. He was adamant that Kasrat-e-Aulad would help Muslims take over the planet, and that family planning was the sazish of Yahud-o-Nasara to keep the Muslims in control and subservient. Among quoting many references, one of the references he kept quoting was the verse in the Quran which says, “Do not murder your children from the fear of dearth of food, it is We who provide you the food, and that We will provide them as well”. Thus, without trying to grasp the actual essence of the verses, he exonerated the parents of their primordial responsibility of parenting a child to include education, medical care, clothing, and feeding. No one in the crowd felt the need to remind him of the topic he was supposed to delve in, or even ask him the basic questions relevant to his speech as to who would take care of other aspects concerning parenting; the fact that the quality of individuals, no matter how small in number is far better than an army of those who are primarily animals walking on two legs. No one indicated to him that it was better to plan a family than to produce scores of children, who, instead of carrying school bags, are seen begging on the city’s chawks to fend for themselves. What can we expect out of them? What kind of society would they constitute when they grow up? Definitely, a group of unruly revellers, drowning in the misery of their animalistic instincts and dancing to the beat of their own drum.
This predatory instinct has been repeatedly witnessed in the most ghastly incidents of mob lynching of foreign officials, people accused of blasphemy, etc. In August 2021, the horrifying incident with a girl TikToker shook the heads of the nation in shame, who wanted to film the crowd gathering at Minar-e-Pakistan celebrating national Independence Day. What happened next was no less than a horror movie. Her coming out alive in one piece is still considered to be no less than a miracle. Maulana’s fiery speech on the altar, centred on his undying lust for procreation, advocating the Muslim to conquer the world began to hit me like a sledgehammer. Unsettled and suffocated, I looked around at the jam-packed audience, trying to read their faces in the hope of spotting any that felt agitated the way I did. To my disgust, it wasn’t thinking minds that I could see, rather sub-humans submerged in a state of utter drunkenness... the face of a patient etherised upon a hospital bed. At the end of the prayers, I approached the Maulana and politely pleaded with him that the need of the hour was family planning and who could teach this better than a man of religion? This enraged the Maulana who, instead of replying to me, started asking for my name and designation. Upon finding out that I was nobody, he instructed me to leave the premises.
Here, if one wishes to voice or attempt to explain logic and rationale, he would either meet a fate similar to Javed Ahmad Ghamidi, if lucky, or simply lose one’s life after being branded as heretic wajib-ul-qatl (to be slain). Who dare speak?
The stark reality is that this attitude has not been developed in a day. It is a result of quiet acquiescence in the face of adversities, complicity in the face of moral debaucheries, and indifference to the plight of the common man. This callous Sanu ki attitude, the loss of all ownership of responsibility, and gross desensitization of the people trace its origins in the existence of the country itself. The reality is that this nation has been deceived in the name of Security, Nationalisation, Democracy, Islamization, Jihad, Terror, Pakistan First, Enlightened Moderation, and God knows what else to come. It has been blinded by over ambitious claims of righteousness and morality—and sadly, with nothing to show for it. It is all just a string of nebulous lip service, and rhetorical drama, sewn around hollow slogans. Moral policing and religious exploitation are the norm, but they exist selectively; only to preach “others”, to invoke in them, the Marxist “false consciousness” and delude them into believing that they are on the right track.
When trying to encapsulate the current state of affairs, my own words fail me, so I must reach for Saadat Hasan Manto:
“Infiltrate the minds of people with religion to such an extent that they begin to view deprivations as part of their fate, oppression as a test of their patience, expressing a firm stance against justice as a sin, slavery as a sign from God and murder as their designated time of death, viewing silence as their only option.”
The writer is a historian and a critical analyst. He can be reached at arslan9h@gmail.com
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This wonderful and interesting article I must say, depicts our society so well. Arslan wrote about casual behavior in a manner that he put our attention almost
everything.
Treat to read.keep it up
Quite an accurate review of the historical factors that define the sorry state of affairs, that are still a reflection of our colonial past. I, however, feel that our leaders, the so called educated elite and the societal / political icons of the country, thrive on these very social disparities, when they finally achieve their coveted status. And strangely , the fortunate few among the oppressed, who manage to break the traditional shackles, also end up aping the norms of the elite, conveniently forgetting their mission and their vociferously proclaimed progressive politico social objectives. So the rot not only continues, but also becomes denser.
A very good read. Depicts the miseries of enslaved general populace; and colonial mindset of ruling elites. But this is part of the problem; but where does lie it’s solution? A pessimistic reply may be that our society is fearful of putting up any renaissance efforts being wary of their fate by the ruling elites and mafia who don’t want a change. However I remain optimistic about a great change though at snail pace. Rome wasn’t built in a night and no nation can become great lest lot of sacrifices and time needed for the change.
Let’s wait till our general populace goes from “sanu ki” mode to ” tuwahnu ki”.
Pakistan zindabad.
The awe-inspiring Muhammad Arslan Qadeer has exhibited exceptional skills in his thought-provoking article titled “Sanu Ki.” With great precision and insight, the author delves into the intricate dynamics of the “conspiracy of silence” and the detrimental impact it has on a nation’s progress. Qadeer’s analysis is both critical and thought-provoking, shedding light on the significance of silence as a tool of oppression and hindrance to a nation’s true potential. Through his eloquent writing style and the creation of meaningful dialogue, the author successfully engages readers and prompts them to reflect on the power dynamics at play. Qadeer’s ability to tackle such a sensitive topic and stimulate discourse demonstrates his mastery in conveying complex ideas and fostering a deeper understanding of societal issues. His contribution to the field of critical analysis is commendable, and his article serves as a catalyst for change and awareness in addressing the culture of silence.
Very Right the writer has explained the concept of Silence which is very much present in our masses , that is Sanu Ki .
Sad & unfortunate.
Thumbs Up for the writer